Staring at a positive pregnancy test can be crushing; especially if the pregnancy was not planned. Sharing the news with your partner or boyfriend can add more stress to an already overwhelming situation.
If you’re on the fence on whether or not to share your pregnancy news with your boyfriend or partner, we hope this article empowers you to choose what’s best for your situation.
Confidentiality
Take comfort in knowing you are under no obligation to share your pregnancy news with anyone; even the baby’s father.
While some women find comfort in sharing the news with a loved one, others prefer to quietly face their pregnancy alone.
Make Safety A Priority
If you are unsure how your partner will react to your pregnancy news, the most important thing to consider is your safety. An unplanned pregnancy can stir up strong emotions and some partners may react with violence to the news.
Sharing the news in a public place can be a great way to protect yourself from a harmful situation. Make it casual like simply going out to lunch or a coffee. If the news goes over smoothly, you’ll have a great memory of a special time out with your partner.
The Final Decision Is Up To You
The most important thing to remember when dealing with an unexpected pregnancy is that how you proceed is ultimately your decision. You should never feel pressured into any decision you are uncomfortable with.
If you’re unsure of your options or what course of action may be best for your situation, Lifechoices offers no-cost support services to women in need.
Help Finding Your Way
Lifechoices provides women with no-cost pregnancy tests and ultrasounds to be sure their pregnancy is still growing and viable. If you’re considering an abortion, it’s important to understand all of your options and the risks associated with each. You don’t have to walk through an unplanned pregnancy alone. We’re here for you when you need a listening ear. Call us to set up an appointment at 720-453-9908.