An unplanned pregnancy can create all kinds of feelings and emotions. Some women might be pleasantly surprised at the news, while others are terrified.
Whatever you’re feeling in light of your pregnancy news, know that your feelings are valid. If you don’t want to continue the pregnancy, several options exist.
Understanding Abortion
Abortion is a procedure used to terminate an existing pregnancy. Women who are no more than ten weeks pregnant may be eligible for a medical abortion.
For women more than ten weeks pregnant, a surgical abortion may be an option depending on the abortion laws in their state. Surgical abortions must be done in a clinic or hospital and involve removing the pregnancy via forceps, surgical instruments, or a vacuum device.
It’s important to understand the risks and side effects that come along with abortion so that you can make a confident and informed decision.
Is Adoption Right For Me?
If you do not want an abortion, adoption may be a better alternative. The adoption process begins when you partner with a local adoption agency. The agency will be your advocate and guide you through the steps needed to place your child in a loving home.
As the birth mother, you can select the family to raise your child and choose how involved you wish to be in your child’s life. Open adoptions allow the birth mother to stay connected with the adoptive family and have communication with their child as he/she grows. Closed adoptions will protect the birth mother’s privacy, and no communication or information will be shared once the adoption is complete.
Choosing to give a child up for adoption is never easy, and it’s common for birth mothers to experience a time of grieving and loss. But adoption can be redemptive and provide birth mothers a sense of pride and accomplishment knowing they chose a life of love for their child.
Am I Ready To Parent?
Becoming a parent is a major life step. Parenthood is filled with hard days and long nights. But many women would tell you the joy a child brings into your life far outweighs the times of sacrifice.
If you’re on the fence about parenting, finding a strong support system can bring confidence and clarity to your decision.
At Life Choices, we offer women various resources. Our staff will work with you to find referrals for your needs. These can include rent, food, housing, and even medical assistance.
Planning For the Future
Before you decide on how to move forward with your unplanned pregnancy, take some time to process the information. People tend to make rushed decisions when mad, scared, or stressed.
If you’d like to discuss the options available, Life Choices is here. Our caring staff will allow you to learn the details about each option in a peaceful and judgment-free environment.
Call us at 303-651-2050 to schedule a no-cost appointment today!
Life Choices does not perform or refer for abortions.